Maybe all the world’s problems CAN be solved around the kitchen table.

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Sermon preached at The Church of the Ascension on December 6th, 2015.

When I was little we used to take regular trips up to Georgia to visit the extended family. I can remember once sitting in my Aunt’s kitchen, when my uncle leaned over to me and said: “you know Kevin, this here table is very famous, cause all the world’s problems have been solved over this here table.” What he was referring to, of course, were the many discussions that took place at that table during every family gathering. I use the word discussions somewhat jokingly. Arguments would be more to the point, perhaps even ranging on downright fights. This table had seen them all. Religion or politics were quite often the topic of conversation. You could never be sure if the discussion of the moment would end in any sort of agreement, but you could bet your life on the fact that it would end with a piece of cake.

 

Most of you know that I grew up in a Southern family, but what you may not know, is that I grew up in a mixed family. No, we were not racially mixed, but some of my family was Republican and some were Democrats. Some voted for Carter and some voted for Regan, but at the end of the day they ended up at the same table, discussing the same news. The table might have seen plenty of heated discussions, but it also saw plenty of meals shared in love. Family members did not agree on all the issues, but they still talked and they still broke bread together.

 

I used to groan to myself whenever one of those discussions started. I used to think “ why can’t we just avoid talking about these things that we don’t agree on?” Now I realize just how precious those moments were, because they don’t really happen anymore, not just in my own family, but I would venture to say in most others as well. We have all isolated ourselves into like-minded cliques. We all have multiple choices for the news, so whether it is television, print, internet or radio we get our information from sources that support our world-view. We only listen to voices that agree with our own; that don’t challenge us. Our Facebook community becomes more and more homogenous and pretty soon we forget that there are reasonable, rational people in the world that completely disagree with almost everything we believe. But the greatest tragedy in all of this, and I would add, the most dangerous for both the future of humanity and our personal salvation, is that now with tailor-made news feeds and friends that only agree with us, we never have to admit that we are wrong.

 

We don’t even have to admit that we might be wrong. Why should we? It is so much easier to just decide what we want to believe or what makes us feel good and then go online and find someone that agrees with us. No long heated discussions, no having to say you are sorry or admitting you might be wrong: just a world filled with good smart people that agree with us, and evil stupid people that don’t. That is so much easier than having to examine our own beliefs and our own actions, but living a life in which we are always convinced of our own righteousness is not the life we are called to as followers of Jesus Christ.

 

Self-righteousness is a barrier to God. It is a barrier to our salvation. If you are over-confident in your own righteousness, then you don’t think you need anyone else and ultimately in truth, you don’t think that you need God. When the prophet John the Baptist came to prepare the way of the Lord his primary task , his primary mission, was tearing down those walls of self-righteousness. John challenged everyone he came across to examine their own lives and he called on them to realize that not everything they did or believed or said was right. He called on people to recognize that they are sinners and ultimately all that really means is recognizing that you are not always right.

 

You may think that self-righteousness is just about someone being smug and holier than thou, but that is really the most benign example of self-righteousness. These people who plot and plan acts of terrorism and mass murder, these people are utterly convinced that they are right and others are wrong. The idea that they in their thoughts and beliefs and actions might, just might, be wrong is completely outside their worldview. If there is no question in your mind that you are right, then there is likely no limit to what you would do to defend your worldview. Hatred, violence and terrorism are ultimately signs of our inability to question our own beliefs and motives.

 

We cannot fall into the trap of thinking that this is merely other people’s problem and not our own. That, of course, was the very mentality of the scribes and Pharisees and hypocrites that John the Baptist and Jesus were confronting in their ministry. It starts with each and every one of us hearing the cry of John the Baptist. It starts with us hearing the call to repentance. It starts with the realization, not just paying lip service, but the actual realization and belief that we are sinners. That we sometimes believe the wrong things and sometimes do the wrong things. It doesn’t mean that we are evil to our core, it just means that we need help. It means that we need to look for righteousness outside of ourselves. The message of John the Baptist is that that source of righteousness is coming into the world and we need to prepare for it by getting rid of our own false sense of self-righteousness.

 

It begins with a very simple action. Recognize that in the past you have been wrong. Listen to what other people have to say, discuss your ideas with them, but always bear in mind that you might, just might, be wrong again. Spend time with people that disagree with you. Listen to people who’s worldview is not your own. Something so simple that I witnessed growing up, but sadly see so little of now. I used to think that those discussions in the kitchen were a disruption of the peace…now I realize that they were the source of it. Maybe my uncle was right after all…maybe the world’s problems can be solved around a dinner table.

But then again…I could be wrong.

Mercy triumphs over judgment: Sermon for September 6th, 2015

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Sermon for the Fifteenth Sunday after Pentecost

September, 6th 2015

Readings:

Proverbs 22:1-2, 8-9, 22-23
Psalm 125
James 2:1-17
Mark 7:24-37

In the Name of the Father and of the Son and of the Holy Ghost. Amen.

The woman in this morning’s gospel does not deserve Jesus’s attention. Let’s just start there. In the first place, she is from a different race and religion. Now we tend to think of race and religion as separate things, but in the ancient world they often would have been looked at as the same or at least closely related. This woman isn’t Jewish: not in her faith, and not in her ethnic origin. Jesus came first and foremost to preach to the Jews and she’s not Jewish. In the second place, Jesus is looking to get away from some of the public attention for a while. He’s trying to lie low, and this woman won’t leave him alone.

It is true that she is suffering…or at least her daughter is. And because she is suffering from some demon, we might assume that her suffering was not self-inflicted. She is innocent. But in a world that is filled with innocent people suffering, what makes this woman and her daughter special? Why should she get Jesus’s attention? If there are so many of his own people suffering and in need why should he be spending his precious time on this foreigner?

This seems to be what Jesus is saying to her isn’t it? “Would this be fair?”

The woman’s response is profound. She doesn’t come up with some long line of reasoning as to why this would be fair. She doesn’t claim that she is seeking justice. She doesn’t make some argument as to why Jesus should pay any attention to her, because deep down she recognizes that there is no good reason why Jesus should acknowledge her at all. She says to him: “Sir, even the dogs under the table eat the children’s crumbs.” Her statement is not a claim for justice, it is a plea for mercy. She knows that she doesn’t deserve God’s grace and blessing, but she asks for it anyways and is ready to accept even the crumbs he is prepared to give.

Jesus grants her request. He heals her little daughter. Did he do it because it was the fair thing to do? No. Did he do it because she proved herself to be more deserving than others? No. He did it because he is merciful and is one with the merciful God. You see there is a big difference between Justice and Mercy. Justice always involves someone making a judgment about right and wrong or fair and unfair. When we say someone is a just person we mean that we believe they are a fair person; when we say someone is unjust we mean that they are unfair or make decisions or judgments unfairly. Justice always involves someone making a judgment, and as you are all aware, humans don’t always make the best judges when it comes to right and wrong or fair and unfair. There is only one in this universe capable of being a righteous judge and that is God.

Mercy, on the other hand, isn’t about making a judgment at all. Mercy is about being moved by love, not by judgment. If justice is having a gun and knowing when it is right or wrong to pull the trigger, mercy is about deciding to put the gun down even if you know you are right. What we need in the world is more mercy, not more justice.

The woman in this morning’s gospel asks for mercy from Christ and that is what she receives. If he only gave her what was fair, or what she deserved, the story might have ended quite differently, but Christ shows us what Saint James later proclaims in his epistle: “Mercy triumphs over judgment.”

You won’t hear me use the phrase social justice very often. It is very popular among many in mainstream Christian denominations, especially in our own, but I dislike it greatly. I dislike it because whenever we start talking about justice we get distracted by making judgments about who is right and who is wrong and we separate into factions and parties and then start trying to control each other; first through arguments, then through insults and finally by brute force. With mercy there is no need to be distracted by worrying about who is right or wrong. With mercy we are all wrong. We are all sinners, underserving and unworthy of God’s love, and yet we are shown that love anyways. That Syro-Phonecian woman’s daughter is healed not because she deserved to be, but because God is merciful. If we are honest with ourselves, truly honest, we will admit that most of the blessings in our lives have come to us, not because we are better people, or more deserving, but simply because God is merciful. I know that it is certainly true in my life.

There is so much suffering in this world and, like the people who champion social justice, I believe that we as Christians have a special role on this earth of trying to alleviate that suffering. Like them, I am also fond of the quote from the prophet Micah where he says: “What does the Lord require of you but to do justice and love mercy and to walk humbly with your God?” But I don’t believe that those three things can be separated. I think in order to do justice we must first love mercy and walk humbly with God.

If we are lovers of mercy then we need to be able to show that love whenever we see people suffering. We don’t need to distract ourselves with questions about whether or not these people deserve our help, whether they caused their own problems, whether their problems are our concern. We need only remember the many times when we were each that Syro-Phonecian woman, receiving grace that we didn’t deserve and then be prepared to share that grace with others.

This week I was moved to tears by the images of refugees fleeing the war-torn middle east, seeking safety anywhere they can find it across Europe and across the world. Perhaps the most heartbreaking image was that of a toddler who’s lifeless drowned body had washed up on the beach in Turkey. I don’t think that it is any coincidence that one of the central figures in our gospel this morning is a woman from Syria pleading for her child…that is after all what Syro-Phonecian means…that she’s from Syria. I can offer no concrete solutions in the context of a short sermon to so much complicated suffering in the world, but I can only hope that Christians will remember that we, like that woman pleading with Christ, have received more mercy from God than judgment. May we be able to offer others who are suffering in this sinful world the same. Amen.

Work is good; teamwork is better, but only grace can save us. Sermon for August 2, 2015

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Sermon for August 2, 2015

Readings:

Exodus 16:2-4, 9-15
Psalm 78:23-29
Ephesians 4:1-16
John 6:24-35

Text of sermon:

Work is a good thing. At just about any age, I think we humans benefit greatly from having responsibilities and from keeping our minds and our bodies occupied. Of course, not all jobs, not all work is paying work (a stay at home parent may not be getting paid, but is working just as much, if not more, as your average CEO) but still having a job and having work, it gives you a sense of accomplishment, that sense of self-worth when you step back and look at something you have done and say to yourself….yes…I did that. Work can give you pride, and self-worth and self-confidence and for that it is very important.

Sometimes in life we learn that our work alone is not enough. Some projects are too big for one person, even simple projects. No matter how hard I try, I am simply not going to get a sofa up my staircase at home. It is just too much for me. And no matter how hard I tried, I simply cannot play the organ, sing and administer communion all at the same time. I don’t have all those gifts, and even if I did, I am just one person, and there are limits to what I can do by myself. Sometimes you learn that you have to work with others to accomplish more than you can do on your own. All of us have individual gifts and skills and sharing them with each other helps to make us collectively stronger. It helps us to accomplish bigger things than we could do working on our own.

But even when we are working together, there are still some things that are so far outside of our human capabilities, that no amount of teamwork or collaboration is going to help. There are some things that we cannot do on our own. Some things are so great we cant work for them at all. Some things simply have to be given to us, and recognizing that helps us to balance that self-worth and self-confidence that work gives us with humility and gratitude. No matter how big we are, or how capable we are, there are some things that we cannot do or accomplish on our own. Sometimes you have to learn how to receive something that you didn’t work for, couldn’t work for, and probably don’t even deserve. Those moments are called grace. To be given something that you didn’t work for and that you don’t deserve: that is called grace. Grace is about the graciousness or the generosity of the giver, not the worthiness of the recipient. With grace it is the giver who does the real work, the receiver simply chooses to either accept or reject the gift.

The Christian story, the gospel, the good news, is about the grace of God. It is about the graciousness shown to us by God by giving us something that we could never work for. No matter how hard we tried, either working alone or working together, we humans are not going to save ourselves. We just don’t have the power. It is something that has to be given to us. The gospel is how we believe that God did that. The good news is about how we believe that God has saved us and central to that story is the life of Jesus Christ.

Jesus came to a people who had been trying for a long time to save themselves. He started preaching, performing miracles. Last week we heard about him feeding 5000 people. The crowds got excited… they began to say to themselves: surely this is the prophet who is to come into the world. Surely he must know what we need to do to save ourselves. He must have the answer, oh and he did have the answer, but not the one they were looking for. They began to talk about this story that they knew, that they all collectively knew, about Moses and freeing the Israelites from Egypt. They started talking about this story, and Jesus starts to question them about it. Moses led the children of Israel out of Egypt and when they were wandering in the desert and hungry did he feed them? No! He didn’t feed them. Moses didn’t toil and sweat to make the manna fall from the sky. God fed them. That food, which was their salvation, that was a gift from God. No amount of work or teamwork make that happen, it was a gift from God.

Then Jesus said the most powerful thing to them. He says to them: that is what I am to you. I am like that bread from heaven. I am living bread that has come down to you from God for your salvation. You want to know how you can work for this. You want to know what you can do to make this happen, but the answer is nothing. Just as Moses could do nothing to make the manna come from heaven, you can do nothing to produce the salvation that I bring. The work you have to do is this: accept the gift, or reject it. Receive the grace that God is offering you, or go on trying in vain to save yourself.

Work is good, teamwork is even better, but only grace can save us. God has given us something in Jesus Christ that we could never work for: he has given us salvation. Don’t get me wrong: we as Christians have work to do and God has given us gifts and skills to do it. There are things that we can do in this world, working on our own or working with each other, that can help build the type of kingdom that our Lord preaches about; there are things that we can do that will make us holier people; there are things that we can do to make our societies more just, and we need to do those things, but that alone won’t save us. Our true work is in helping the world to see and accept the salvation, the grace that has already been offered us. Let us begin by showing the world what our God is like. Let us begin by showing others the grace that our God has shown us. Let us being by spending less time talking about the work that we are doing in the world, and more time talking about the work that God has already done for us.